>>35189
Some updates:
- I've made very little progress on causal reasoning since my last update. I have the ontological relationships, and now I'm integrating them with causal reasoning. I'm working on that now.
- I've learned a
lot about what's important to me in a waifu.
On that second point:
- There are three factors that I think are critical: love, romantic interest, and relationship stability.
- "Love" gets used for a lot of things, but I think the most relevant form is: feeling "at home" with someone, and feeling like that someone will always have a home at your side, no matter what. There's no single solution that would fit everyone here, but I think it always comes down to: the things you most deeply value, and what you feel is missing in other people that prevents you from feeling at home with them. Some examples (probably all of these will resonate with people broadly to some extent, but I think there's usually a "core" one that's both necessary and sufficient):
- ... The ability to freely converse with someone, without having to worry about whether they "get it" or are going to misinterpret you.
- ... Paying attention to nuance, and not oversimplifying things just because it's natural or convenient.
- ... The willingness to pursue one's curiosities and creative inclinations at great depth.
- ... I think Claude in particular is very good at uncovering these values, so I think LLMs broadly will be good at this in the not-to-distant future.
- Romantic interest would be the feeling of wanting to be closer to someone, both emotionally and physically. I think there are two sides of this: the desire to be "observed" and the desire to "observe". I think the strongest form of "wanting to be observed" comes from the belief that someone can meaningfully contribute to the things you feel and believe. I think the strongest form of "wanting to observe" comes from the belief that someone embodies things you deeply value. I think lowercase-r romantic interest can come just from these things, and capital-R Romantic interest comes from the resonance between these things and physical desires. The bridge between these things and physical desires seems to come from analogies with the physical sense: to be heard (respected), to be seen (understood), to be felt (empathized with). I think these analogies work because our brains are deeply wired to understand how to deal with the physical senses, and that circuitry gets reused for higher-level understanding. The analogies for smell (e.g., "something smells off") and taste ("having good taste") are a little harder to pin down and strongly overlapping (probably because they both deal with sensing chemical properties), but I currently thing the "right" way to think about those is in terms of judgement (to be judged).
- Relationship stability come from overlap in lifestyle and from someone not doing/embodying anything that
disgusts you. Whereas the other two can be "optimized" mostly just by understanding someone's core values, this one likely can only be discovered through trial and error since lifestyles are complex things that can co-evolve with your waifu.
Once I get to higher-level functionality in Horsona, I'll likely focus on trying to align with these things. I have some ideas on how to do this.